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Nate Zroh's avatar

Dude. Dang. You've got depth.

I once watched a show describing life during the first century in the middle east. This line stuck with me : "You'll never know the next time you'll have a fresh glass of water"

It's ridiculous how, while knowing these factors, contentment can feel so elusive, hard to reach at times. At least for me. But knowing these facts dramatically improved my happiness.

Tough.

I aim to be reasonably happy, while learning how to dance with both, contentment and ambition. We'll see how this goes.

Anyhow, cool piece man.

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JenThePen's avatar

Love this—thanks for shedding light on the issue.

Another reason (probably related to the first) is that our generation grew up with our parents telling us we could be whatever we wanted to be. Do whatever we wanted to do.

In many cases, they conveniently neglected to add, “But it’ll take a lot of work.”

So we all went to college (or wanted to, because we were told that was what we should do) and went into debt for a degree that may or may not prove helpful in terms of actually getting work.

Or we dove straight into the workforce, expecting to be applauded for our genius (because we’d been told about our potential our whole lives). Over time, we grew more and more disenchanted with the “meaningless” nature of our work and our inability to advance through the ranks.

As you said, there are many factors, and several of them are interconnected.

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